Dating someone 10 years older
In many cases, that precipitous drop-off has to do with a natural decrease in testosterone, the male sex hormone that allows you to sustain an erection, ejaculate and have an orgasm.
Studies show that most men experience a 2% drop-off in testosterone production each year after they turn 30.
A 36-year-old will pass on twice as many mutations to his child as a man of 20, and a 70-year-old eight times as many, Stefánsson’s team estimates. Finally, while you may find a bit of gray in the sideburns sexy, keep in mind that a man’s age will affect his parenting style.
There’s something to be said for dealing with infants in one’s youth rather than middle age.
His aversion to childish arguments means it's likely he'll put a blanket right over that fire, and that's good, because in reality it's pretty unlikely that every argument is going to end in aggressive sex, and more likely to result in 2 days of sitting at opposite ends of the sofa not talking. And he’ll say ‘the lady will have…’ with the cosmopolitan demeanour of an older gent.
Which can be frustrating when all you want is a good shout about how angry you both are, rip each other's clothes off and then engage in equally shouty make-up sex. He’ll order something sophisticated and delicious for you. Sex with an older man is like listening to any rap song and finally understanding what it all means. And that wisdom will make their eyes look all the more deep and beautiful. Which means, if it gets real serious, there will be no squabbling about whose flat to move into - I mean, he's got a fridge with an ice machine in the Are you dating an older man?
He's walked those paths, laid that turf, smelt those roses. ) He sends proper messages, where you know when he writes your name it's with gruff, grown-up authority and it's amazing. I mean, depending on how old your fella is, this time may only be 1980, but at least he went through his teens without having his eyes glued to some form of social feed. ) This ultimately means that their idea of romance isn't from the “Netflix and chill” era that we're currently balls-deep in, so you’re likely to get called by your name and not "bae", and "hanging out" means fancy cocktails and dinner, rather than House of Cards and half-arsed "hands stuff" in his parent’s attic where he lives until his student loan is paid off. By the time a man reaches his thirties, he has been through the rigmarole of finding himself and finding what he likes, so by the time you reach him, he's already half way up that career ladder, ready to carry on to the top, pulling in those duckets hard and fast. It’s a confidence that only comes with life experience, whether that’s travelling the world, earning a lot of money or living through a massive shroom trip, it’s a depth that only comes with age.
He knows his way around a lady garden, shall we say. (I mean, it's the same amount of letters in both, just use the one that doesn't make you sound like a dick! And even hotter than knowing just any old stuff, is knowing what they want.
That can make dinner slightly awkward…He's over the three day text rule.I cannot stress this enough: dating an older man really is amazing. It should be a rule that from your twenties onwards, every guy you ever date should be at least 5 years older than you. He knows what he wants in life and he's out to get it. In addition to causing a lower libido, that decrease can also result in changes in mood and emotions, a decrease in strength due to loss of muscle tissue, and an increase in body fat.In other words, your loss of libido is perfectly timed to coincide with your brand new lard-ass physique and moody attitude.